oh yeah, and im not "friends" with people. im NICE to people. theres a big difference. if i let you into my life and tell you my secrets, then yeah, i suppose were friends, but if you just harass me online every now and again and i give you one word answers, chances are im just being nice. i dont have it in me to be a mega-super-bitch to people no matter HOW much they deserve it. its just...not...me. and i refuse to stoop to that level.
also, i dont think people should be giving me shit just because of who im nice to. IM A NICE PERSON!!! and since when was being nice a crime? "omg, youre nice to so and so, you must be best friends, i cant talk to you now."
i dont care if this ruins whatever "rep" i have. im a nice person, and thats all that matters. i dont need the ill feelings just because im doing what i feel is right.