im tired of people mentioning their Ex's all the time. seems like this week all ive heard was "my ex used to do this" "my ex used to say that" "my ex made me feel bad..but now im dating this new guy/girl and things are good.." yet they still obsess over their ex. do i obsess over mine? no. the only time i talk about him is when he calls me and makes an ass out of himself trying to get back together with me, but hes out of my mind completely otherwise, cuz you know what? i have a great guy who treats me right, friends who are there for me, parents that love me and thats all that matters. im loved by so many more people than my ex, so why dont i obsess about them rather than someone i dated 3 years ago? think about it..maybe you could use that advice.