If you didn't hear it from me, and there's no indication of me telling you something DIRECTLY, don't believe it for a minute. When in doubt, come ask me cuz yanno, I'm not as evil as people often make me out to be.
I'm getting rather sick and tired of people claiming I said or did something without any actual evidence other than the word of people who I've never talked to.
My life is not a tabloid for your amusement. I am not some movie star with a dirty secret the media is trying to get at, in fact quite the opposite. I'm a fairly open person when asked, so seriously, if something you hear I did or said sounds even somewhat out of character for me, please come and ask me. My e-mail is firstname.lastname@example.org and you'll find I'll easily tell you what's /really/ going on.
If you have an issue with coming to me on an issue that concerns me, well then thats your problem, not mine, now isnt it?